Part time human, full time mess

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

Introduction 

Hi, I’m Pearl. I’m an nd, otherkin, polygender, grey-biromantic lesbian with somewhat contradicting kintypes

My genders are:

  • female
  • ADHDgender
  • autigender
  • catgender
  • kotogender
  • eluvian
  • nuptunun
  • angelgender
  • aqueousgender
  • ottergender 

My pronouns are:

  • she/her/her/hers/herself
  • sea/lu/na/nas/luself 
  • meow/meow/meows/meows/meowself
  • it/it/its/its/itself

My kintypes are:

  • mermaid
  • seafairy
  • just water in general
  • house cat
  • angel
  • otter
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birdofmay
greatgavintron

Type "my gender is" on your phone and let your phone finish the sentence, then tag your moots to keep the chain going, I'll go first.

My gender is a little bit more intense than I thought I could have done

@mirukosbitchywife @get-junpeid

yourlocalluciferian

my gender is an issue of yours too and i’m sorry

@theladyinwhite13 @octoberconstellation @cowboy-like-moony @kurtcobainsgreencardigan @angrboda007 @celticshieldmaiden

octoberconstellation

my gender is not a binary gender but a binary person who is a woman

@svnflowermoon @bejeweled-13 @weeping-in-the-willows @its-tortle @losing-my-mind-in-the-mirror

bejeweled-13

My gender is not my gender but it does make me look like a little kid in a dress with my face and a big nose

@mqstermindswift @swiftie-fox @cinnamonangel333

mqstermindswift

My gender is in my opinion that you can do that with the other side and then we go change it in the time you want it

@bettysparksfly @chiara-swiftiedreamer13 @thesunandstarss

butyoupaintedmegolden

my gender is not the same as i was before

@internetsfavoritedaughter @faeruine

trapped-in-a-trance

my gender is a fucking bitch why do you exist

@firebrand-witch @swift-of-crows13 @lilisouless @theequeersdeservebetter

lilisouless

My gender is not like a normal person and I think it’s a good thing

yes-i-exist-shutup

My gender is always in my mind when I’m not around to be with someone I don’t like or want

@theloonatic @totallynots8tan @atthispointeverythingischaos

totallynots8tan

my gender is attack helicopter

@kazbrekkerfast @john-smiths-jawline @a-portal-to-nowhere @kayrielwrites

john-smiths-jawline

my gender is not a binary gender but a gender identity that is not a single gender identity.

@gaylilsherlock @gaypiningshit @ollie-garden

gaylilsherlock

my gender is a girl and a boy and I am both and neither

@loki-lock @lovelenivy @clueless-mp4

loki-lock

My gender is your responsibility

@topsyturvy-turtely @somethingintheforest @jawnn-watson

jawnn-watson

My gender is a bit of a religious setting up.


@thespaceantwhowrites @theresnoescapingfromtheheartache @im-gonna-squeet

im-gonna-squeet

my gender is not a good thing to do

@dancinglifeboat @nereaddict @night-dragon937 @i-have-funny-hat @darth-shado

i-have-funny-hat

My gender is the most common gender and my wife and my daughter both had the opposite of what we have

@just-another-miserable-prick @trainqueen379

just-another-miserable-prick

My gender is the last thing I want to make sure you can see

@trainsandkitties @mightywonder87 @duncandonuts06

trainsandkitties

my gender any longer as the page is still in my head.

@biggsodorcitystories @toast-com @elovesrandomfandom

elovesrandomfandom

my gender is the best for you to guess cuz of their own way

@jayde-jots

@projectanimations

@fabianvalencia561

jayde-jots

My gender is the link to the information you have fun in.

And anyone who wants to have a go I guess.

13o7billionyearsinthemaking

My gender is not thailand for the night.

@babababababababababa7 @boygerbish @rye-in-a-coat @onyx-and-friends @gordon208 @welcometoinsanity @thechaddyengine @aggressiveseamold

Idk I think you'd like this

boygerbish

my gender is a really good cheese

@raymondranchman @starcatzzz

starcatzzz

my gender is the best sleep ever

kaiyote7-deactivated20230723

my gender is not the first time he'd done this but he knew that he was going to be a prince ??.

@inevitable-pretty-chaos @cryptidscries @moon-forest @backwood-sys

inevitable-pretty-chaos

My gender changing to masculine.

@randomideas666 @outlying-hyppocrate @dr-sunshines-needle-show (/nf ofc)

outlying-hyppocrate

my gender is not sleeping well and I don't know what to say about it

anyone who'd like to can feel free to join (:

dashadowgirl

My gender is a bit more tired than the normal

@thestarlitnights @medlabmech @thatsvillanelle @crystallinelily @ra1nbow-0nyx

medlabmech

My gender is a good time to meet up with the following information about your experience with this girl.


@lilythebracer @w4nderingdreamer @lungia @viciousbootyhunter @eri-lessthan3 @megatrans69 @ahamkaracature @brennholzverleih @breezingwing @someoneihavelovedbutneverknown

breezingwing

My gender is a highly motivated to do that 😉

(whatever that means)

@esthermika @nebulaaaaaa @sanctimoniouszoe @w4nderingdreamer

esthermika

My gender is a state of mind sometimes

@eri-lessthan3 @wow-can-you-believe-this-gal @wowzoerz-blog @intolunarorbit @frozebydesires-blog @greenflamethegf @endorblast @original-username42 @femcelmiku @momusu-saval @sovereign-skyy

wow-can-you-believe-this-gal

My gender is a very demanding day and I'm not going to be able to tell

@queerbit @hanavesinauttija @yoyo-yoghurt @kira-serialfaggot

queerbit

My gender is so much easier to do than that but it’s just a little bit of pain

@certifieddudette @flyin-shark @flowers-but-gay @clunsebungis @sarcasmcandy @anarcho-boykisserism @glitch-frog

anarcho-boykisserism-archived

my gender is a lot better than pakistan which is a thing in ukraine

okayyy . . .

@onefluffykiriko @p2ii @orgasming-caterpillar @mell-150 @boot2004 @aqualixoxo @ad15124

orgasming-caterpillar

My gender is what's in your pants

...hehe >:)

@christs-cock @mrunmione @the-one-and-only-aroace /open tags i cant remember anyone else atm

christs-cock

my gender is a big parade

open tags :3

ellipsisnt

my gender is a girl i don’t like

@sand-cat-void-vibes @mostlyonthefloor @sillyfunny @lun4cat

sand-cat-void-vibes

my gender is a girl i don't like that for her

if anyone knows what this means please let me know?

@imkris @a-random-lunatic @somewhat-comptetent-wizard and anyone else i'm too tired to tag

a-random-lunatic

My gender is not too bad for you and the other people are in the woods right now

We don’t talk about the hostages in the woods ok? >:3

@dyinggoosenoises @amsamski @bakersfield-row @emptyheadgamer @freelancefiend2112 @hallaer @your-resident-boat-person and anyone else. No pressure

bakersfield-row

Also tagged by @hanavesinauttija

My gender is not a binary gender but a binary gender is a binary gender

…true???

@terrencetheshark14 @acleris @insert-content @keenkryptonitenut @tolbre @empress-of-dark2005 @teavyy

empress-of-dark2005

My gender is the best one

@acekoral @carawith17as @cleoh42 @drakonyx121 @dolorem-itself @gremrin @gibdabobo @hewsos-from-lesbos @john-liberal @the-lumpfish-king @nonamehorse

nonamehorse

My gender is no shame I don't think

True

@flowers-but-gayer @soggy-wet-catgirl @magicalfishnipples @opathes @themainspoon @kira-serialfaggot

themainspoon

My gender is not a problem for me but I don’t want to be a burden on you and I don’t want to be a problem for you and I don’t want to be a part of your life so please don’t worry about me and I’m not gonna be around anymore


Mutuals randomly selected for the task of maintaining the chain:

@plaid-dragon @ahamkaracature @nellaaaaaa @boot2004 @machinegunbukkake

ahamkaracature

My gender is not a binary gender but a binary gender

Hm yeah I guess I can go with that

I summon my legion of DOOOOOOOM (my lovely followers)

marateleam

My gender is a little mad at me and I don't know how to make it look like a good one.

@discordarchitect @nottheweasley

nottheweasley

My gender is no way to me less than an inch and I even get a refund for it.

@birdofmay @ghostofapineapple @deagle

@topsyturvy-turtely @therapist-assigned-blog

birdofmay

My gender is not available for a while and I will have to be so brave about it 🙂


........alright 😂 Tagging everyone who wants to participate

pearl-raynefel

My gender is the one who has to go through a lot.

I initially got “my gender is a girl” which is accurate but rather boring, so I decided to try again and got the sentence above.

Honestly, both are accurate because my actual gender(s) are girl and a half and a dozen other things

also tagging anyone who wants to participate

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birdofmay
backgroundagent3

Mental age test

Thanks for the tag @ryder616 and @samanthaswishes! 💙💜

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This is pretty off but I guess I'll take it? 😅

No pressure tagging @aintinacage, @brekker-by-brekkerr, @loved-the-stars-too-fondly, @lovelymysticmoon and @accidental-spice!

aintinacage

Thanks for the tag @backgroundagent3. Not sure if I should be offended. Haha I’m only 21… almost 22.

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Tag @locitapurplepink @trapezequeen @avengerdaisy @wordbunch @kanerallels and anyone else who would like to play.

locitapurplepink

Thanks for the tag @aintinacage

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But I have to tell you guys this. I was excited to play this one but when I saw this result, I was shocked. This quiz is annoying me.

I've been assumed by people calling me "ma'am" Like in my mind, come on, I'm not that old.

Taglist : @photogirl894 , @leosardonyx18 , @cassie-fanfics , @genericficerblog , @l-lend , @zaya-mo , @girlzrok-99 and anyone else who wants to.

girlzrok-99

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LMAO what? WHAT????

That's twice my age rn LOLLL

@aesira-of-orion @jiabae @ilovethosebrowneyes9904

jiabae

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oooookay???

@angst-is-yumyum @antisocial-mariposa @bibannana

bibannana

Oop

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@soliloquy-of-nemo @stardust9905 @starwarsnerd111 @staycalmandhugaclone @nekotaetae @sexy-rex @mistress-of-the-empire @thrawns-teef-weef

thrawns-teef-weef

What can I say?

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NPT: @eyes-of-the-rave, @ephemeral-justice, @ciobite, @ele-millennial-weirdo, @thrawns-babygirl, @thrawns-backrest, @techs-stitches, @ilovestarwarsmen725

ele-millennial-weirdo

Thanks for tagging me @thrawns-teef-weef 💙

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NPT @enaelyork @mysticalgalaxysalad @vibratingbonesbis @al-astakbar @twilekchiss @cai-yue @frogunderarock @bluechiss

enaelyork

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Thx to @ele-millennial-weirdo =p

I tag : @air-mechanical, @starlady66, @fenharel-enaste, @lady-of-imladris, @krenlux, @ashifloof NPT

ashifloof

thanks for the tag @enaelyork <3

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wtf okay... would've never guessed that,I don't feel like it xD

no pressure tags: @poptarttwaiteatea @bloodandglittertastessobitter @couldnt-come-up-with-a-username @howmanyholesinswisscheese @iobsessoverfictionalmen @angel-ponders @anundyingfidelity

theatrekidenergy

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I am a teenager- no pressure tags: @willtheweirdrat @friendofthefellowshipsnerdblog @0eatenteeth0

willtheweirdrat

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I'm middle aged appearently (as a teenager). Now I can truly say I'm Saul Goodman frfr
Tags (no pressure!): @cecil-87 @lavenderlambie @birdofmay @dysphoria-things

birdofmay

Apparently I'm 31, "Over Worried" and born in 1992...

Very interesting... Why is everyone on Tumblr anxious af but didn't get the "over worried" result, while I'm chill and get the worry result? Huh? (thinking emoji) 🤔

pearl-raynefel

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heyatleastitsnotcancer
starcatcheryips

please know that being disabled does not make you incapable of being ableist .

have faced ableism from other disabled people . who thought they know more about my experience with my disabilities than I do . or who thought that me being disabled is some how " threatening " them being disabled too , as if can not both be disabled .

have had other disabled people make rude comments about my disabilities . when I said that what they said was ableist , they question me , say " but I disabled " .

yes , you also disabled , but can still be ableist / say ableist things .

you not immune to say rude things / make mistake . that is ok . you just need admit when you make mistake or say rude things or be ableist . accept it happen some time and learn from it . otherwise , still being ableist .

ignoring disabled people when they tell you being ableist is being more ableist . listen to disabled people , including when you are disabled too .

heyatleastitsnotcancer

joking about adults who rely on their parents (you know, the classic "grown men who live in their mom's basement" joke) does harm disabled people, by the way. it doesn't matter if you don't think you're targeting us. you are.

i'm getting my own living space for the first time ever in two weeks. it's in my mom's basement in a new house. i'm physically and psychologically disabled, i have multiple severe mental health conditions, multiple physical disorders, i use a powerchair, i have to spend most of my time in bed, etc... of course its in my mom's basement. i'm lucky to have a mom who cares for my support needs.

you know why i cant live fully on my own? sometimes im in so much pain or so sick i cant get out of bed for days, and if i was alone, i'd starve. i can't go outside much, and on top of my mental health issues, living in total isolation would destroy me. i can't manage appointments or finances or any of that on my own. i wasn't able to finish high school due to my physical and mental issues. i can't get a job, it takes all of my energy to do so much as take care of my hygiene, and i'm terrified of people. living on my own is dangerous for me.

this is a dream come true. we're getting a house where i can try to be independent, but if i can't, i'm safe.

and yet, i have to fear all of the implications that will have for my social life, if i'm ever able to get one. i'll have to tell people to go around back to get into my house, and when they ask why, i'll have to tell them i'm in my mom's basement. and it doesn't help that people frequently see my autistic traits and deem me a creep - great, im a creep in my moms basement, this is going to do wonders. and i'm sure all of my other mental issues will make that even better. /s

like, i dont care if youre joking about the neurotypical able-bodied people who "leech" off of their parents - first off, if you really were, i don't know where the creepy part of the joke comes in, and secondly... people have their reasons. i dont know of many people who willingly decide to keep living with their parents in a basement if they had the ability to go to their own apartment. it is not a moral failing to struggle with independence as an adult. stop acting like it is

gwydion-aacblog
zillycripple

anyways here is a short list of anti-intersex talking points that should raise red flags from you no matter who they come from , including intersex people :

  • referring to our bodies as "disordered" or "malformed" , or similar wording
  • calling us "hermaphrodites" or "androgynes" , or referring to intersex as "hermaphroditism" [ notably , both of these can be reclaimed by intersex people – but be wary of even fellow intersex people who refer to our entire community this way ]
  • calling intersex people "biologically nonbinary" , or referring to intersex animals as "biologically nonbinary" [ "biologically trans" is just as bad ]
  • statements like "no children are given gender reassignment surgery / hormones / forced to take HRT / etc " –– basically any argument that erases the fact that a majority of intersex children experience anti-intersex medical abuse , including forced surgery upon birth or in early childhood , and/or being forced into hormone therapy
  • claims that intersex people do not face specific , anti-intersex abuse or oppression
  • claims that intersex people as a whole hurt the trans community , or claims that TERFs "make up a majority" of the intersex community [ a claim i am seeing more and more often – it is incredibly untrue ]
  • the idea that intersex is a third gender / the idea that all intersex people are transgender or nonbinary / the idea that intersex people cannot be transgender
  • claims that intersex people are "secretly" not intersex / were not "actually" assigned the gender they say they were
  • claims that "every intersex person is assigned a gender at birth" –– this is not true ! i personally was not assigned a gender upon birth , and it has ruined my life . it is not common but it does happen .

this is not an exhaustive list . intersex people , feel free to add on . i would very much appreciate non-intersex people reblogging and really listening to these dogwhistles . they matter just as much as transphobic ones .